The most important component in finding true happiness is ACCEPTANCE.
This may seem to be a simple process but it is actually easier said than done. If you experience a nagging difficulty in any aspect of your life—it’s likely that the cause of this problem is the failure to accept reality as it is.
There are certain thing in life that we can change like job, address, haircut, girlfriend, boyfriend. However, there will be times when we cannot just change them on a whim. If you don’t like your boss you don’t just quit and say good riddance! Finding a job is hard nowadays. Your current house may not be as plush as you want it to be but do you have enough financial excess to move out and buy a new one? Or, you wanted to have a mohawk style hairdo but if you have a receding hairline like Bruce Willis there wouldn’t be much hair to style. What I’m saying is—in order to be happy in life you should find contentment with what you have.
Resentment is a disease that eats up the soul! If you have an abundance of resentment in your heart there can never be room for happiness!
I cannot tell you what to do. All I can say is—IT’S NOT A GOOD FEELING TO BE RESENTFUL! So, I chose to be happy! Try it! You may find it worthwhile doing!